What Are You Thankful For? A Quick Thanksgiving Reflection

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Thanksgiving is a time to pause and reflect on what brings joy, meaning, and connection to our lives. At Mountains Therapy, we encourage our clients to practice gratitude and acceptance as part of their emotional wellness journey. These practices, often emphasized in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)  and other mental health counseling approaches, are powerful tools for building resilience and fostering peace.


Gratitude focuses on recognizing the positives in life, while acceptance helps us navigate life’s challenges without unnecessary resistance. Together, they create a framework for living a more balanced and meaningful life. This Thanksgiving, take a few moments to ask yourself: What are you thankful for?


A Quick Gratitude & Acceptance Activity

This simple reflection can be done with your phone or a piece of paper, making it easy and accessible during the holiday.


What You’ll Need:

  • Your phone (use the notes app, text a loved one, or send yourself an email).
  • Or, a piece of paper and a pen.


Steps:

1. Pause and Reflect
2. Take a deep breath and ask yourself these two questions:
3. Ask yourself what is one thing I’m thankful for today?
4. Ask yourself what is one thing I’m learning to accept?
5. Write It Down
  1. In your phone’s notes app or on paper, write a sentence or two for each.
6. Share or Keep It Private
  1. If it feels right, share your reflections with a loved one via text or conversation. Gratitude is more powerful when shared.
  2. If private, save your thoughts to revisit later as a reminder of your growth and resilience.


What Is Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)?

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is a powerful form of psychotherapy designed to help individuals embrace life as it is, even when it’s challenging, while committing to actions that reflect their deepest values. Instead of trying to eliminate difficult emotions or thoughts, ACT teaches clients how to navigate them effectively to lead a fulfilling and values-driven life.


What are the Six Core Principles of ACT?

1. Acceptance
  • Learning to welcome thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment or avoidance. Acceptance doesn’t mean approval but involves making room for uncomfortable experiences rather than fighting them.
2. Cognitive Defusion
  • Creating distance from unhelpful thoughts to reduce their impact. For example, instead of being consumed by “I’m not good enough,” ACT encourages noticing this as just a thought—not an ultimate truth.
3. Being Present
  • Cultivating mindfulness and staying fully connected to the here and now. This principle helps individuals step out of autopilot mode and engage with life as it unfolds.
4. Self-as-Context
  • Recognizing that you are more than your thoughts and feelings. This perspective shift allows clients to see themselves as a consistent observer of experiences rather than being defined by them.
5. Values
  • Identifying what truly matters to you—your core guiding principles. Values become a compass, helping you steer your actions and decisions in a purposeful direction.
6. Committed Action
  • Taking purposeful steps toward meaningful goals, even when facing obstacles. Committed action builds resilience and fosters a sense of achievement.


Why ACT Matters in Modern Therapy

At Mountains Therapy, we integrate ACT into our sessions when it aligns with our clients’ needs and goals. This evidence-based approach empowers individuals to handle life’s stressors more effectively, turning challenges into opportunities for growth. ACT helps clients achieve the dual aim of emotional flexibility and purposeful living.


ACT and Gratitude: A Perfect Pair

Gratitude is a practice that naturally aligns with ACT’s focus on mindfulness and embracing life’s imperfections. Together, they offer a framework for fostering acceptance and living in alignment with one’s values. Incorporating gratitude into ACT-based therapy provides clients with practical tools to navigate life’s difficulties while staying connected to what truly matters.


Here’s how they complement each other:

1.Acceptance of Life’s Challenges:
  • Both gratitude and ACT emphasize the importance of embracing life’s ups and downs with openness and curiosity rather than resistance.
2. Shifting Focus:
  • Gratitude encourages shifting attention from what’s lacking to what’s meaningful, which harmonizes with ACT’s principle of identifying and living by core values.
3. Mindful Presence:
  • Both approaches emphasize being present and grounded, whether through savoring small moments of joy or accepting life’s imperfections.


How Mountains Therapy Can Help

At Mountains Therapy, we are committed to helping individuals, couples, and families live rich, meaningful lives. Whether you’re looking to develop mindfulness skills, navigate challenging emotions, or deepen your connection to your values, we’re here to support you. Let our ACT therapists and counselors  help you embrace life’s challenges and take meaningful steps toward the future you desire.


Here’s what you can expect from our ACT-informed therapy sessions:

  • A safe, nonjudgmental space to explore emotions and experiences.
  • Practical tools for managing stress, anxiety, and overwhelm.
  • Personalized strategies to identify and work toward your most meaningful goals.
  • Mindfulness techniques to ground you in the present moment.


Contact Us Today

Reach out to Mountains Therapy for a session designed to support your unique journey toward growth, balance, and resilience.


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